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Birthday: 5/18/1981
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Interests: Keeping Christendom Single! Bicycling. Academics. Sleepage. Boxter S. Crusading for Singleness.
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Friday, August 22, 2008

An adventure gone awry


The comedy of errors continues, though the final termination of Go Cycling! occurred due to anothers' mistake. When I took my bike to the shop Monday, they did not have the chain and/or cassette in stock. This is odd, since I took it to a reputable bike shop. I took it to a small shop in Utica (now out of business) they had the parts in stock, and after 15 minutes of conversation and installation, I was back on the road. The parts won't be in stock for another week, effectively canceling my bike ride. I should have asked about a rental.

Since I haven't taken my kayak out for a multi-day trip yet, I decided to kayak down the shores of Lake Ontario. I put in on Selkirk shores state park, and kayaked 8-9 miles. I camped out just past a nuclear power station - just past the posted sign barring entry to the property surrounding the nuclear campus. I just kinda borrowed a little land to set up my tent. Not sure who owned it, but no hick chased me off with hot lead, so that's a positive.

The kayak back was not quite so positive. I'm now suffering through one of the worst sunburns of my life. My legs, especially the left feel like they're wrapped in a poorly fitting suit of spandex. It is only a first degree burn, but the swollen skin on the shins makes it very difficult to walk. hopefully walking will be less painful when I go back to work on Monday.

I'll probably miss out on the state fair this weekend.


Friday, December 07, 2007

I finally did it: LASIK

Tuesday I finally got the laser eye surgery (LASIK) done. Now I have 20/20 vision in my right eye and 20/25 in my left not bad for an onld geezer.

The proceedure took about 5 to 10 minutes per eye, though there was some prep work prior: anesthetizing eye drops, vallium, etc. It was also completely painless, though I did feel a little pressure on the second eye.

Highly recommended proceedure - just make sure you do research and find a qualified optometrist.


Sunday, September 09, 2007

Why should we be biased against Homosexuality?

The question which forms the basis of my objection to a bias against homosexuality is: "Why is an expression of love wrong?"

Beg the question.

I cannot blindly place  faith in a God who shuns Homosexual behavior without providing any reason. Is it the greatest good to condemn a sexual preference with "I said so. . ."  logic?

I recognize that Gays are often maligned as children, which is believed to causate their sexual preference. Even if this is true, is this any reason to justify further persecution? I realize that you don't "hate" gays; this realization is identified in the last paragraph, yet the church teaches that only married individuals can be "sealed", which requires  Gays to either deny who they are and enter an Heterosexual marriage, or relegates them to an inferior position within the church (ie. they can only recieve an endowment)

Since such a bias is wthout merit both ethcially and logically, it seems that God would have informed his prophet, Gordon Hinkley of such. If Mr. Hinkley missed part of God's message, God would have patiently reiterated the importance of committed relationships, whether Gay or Straight.

Please realize, Elders and President Eccersly; I do not think you are bigots, but I do think that you are mistaken regarding the non-legitimacy of a committed Gay relationship. I have prayed much about our conversations; the Holy Spirit has led me to reject the doctrine of the Latter Day Saints.

I have more empathy  for you than most, since I, too was once myopic in my beliefs on the veracity of Plymouth  Brethren doctrine.

Thank you for your time & friendship.

Sincerely,

Jed Strohm

The above was written to some Mormon Elders. The Mormon belief system regards the BoM as superiour to the Bible. Since the BoM does not speak of the Gay lifestyle, I resorted to philosophical arguments. Some christians have asked me how I explain the Bible passages that allegedly condemn Gays. My response:


The Bible is said to condemn homosexuality in several places. These are identified below; an improved interpretation follows.
 
There are several commandments in Leviticus condemning homosexuality. I believe these laws were overturned along with the dietary laws, and various laws against women.
     1) Other laws were abolished besides the dietary laws.
            a) Hebrews 4 nullifies the Sabbath; we no longer kill people for working on the Saturday. (Exodus 31:12-15)
               b) OT sexual laws (Leviticus 18:19, 29; Leviticus 15:19-24) are not followed, even though not directly reversed in the NT.
                    Note that the sex law in Leviticus 18:19, and the penalty identified in v. 29 are equalized with homosexuality, mentioned in v. 22.

             The New Testament provides us with instructions on how to live that conform to the new covenant.
 
A more notable OT example: Homosexuality is allegedly condemned in Genesis 18 & 19. (Sodom and Gomorrah)
    1) There is no mention of defining homosexuality as "the very grievous sin." (Genesis 18:20) 
        In my opinion, the sin referred to is the sin of rape, which the denizens threatened to do to the angels, a fate Lot offered to subject his daughters to.
        This brutal behavior has nothing to do with the question of whether genuine love between consenting adults (regardless of gender) is legitimate or not.
    2) A charge of homosexuality could be applied under the auspices of bisexuality, or homosexuality.
        If the former, the denizens refused Lot's daughters, so that is not a possibility (Gen 19:9) 
        If the latter, the population of Sodom and Gomorrah would die out rather quickly, since all the men were at Lot's door (Genesis 19:4) so there would be no young for God to destroy
        (due to a lack of procreation).
    3) We're left with the conclusion that the men of Sodom & Gomorrah were only interested in raping the angels, an expression of power, not sexual gratification.
    4) This desperation for power, at the expense of other people is why God destroyed those evil cities.
     5) Ezekiel identifies another sin for which God destroyed S & G. Namely, arrogance, and an unwillingness to help the poor. (Ezekiel 16:48-19) Something for us Americans to think about .
      6) Jude 7 mentions "sexual immorality and perversion" but there is no specificity. Rape is a sexual perversion.
 
Paul is also cited as providing justification for homophobia.
    1) Romans 1:26-27, is the most widely cited biblical source that I've encountered. Several phrases are explained below:
    2) "vile affections" is defined as "natural use into that which is against nature."
        Someone who is naturally attracted to the opposite sex who engages in same-sex behavior could be classified in this way.
        The converse is also true.
    3) "men. . . burned in their lust for one another. . .working that which is unseemly."
        Again, similar to Sodom and Gomorrah, this does not seem like a respectful scenario.    
        "They receive . . . recompense" These consequences are usually defined as venereal diseases and AIDS.
        These diseases are the consequences of promiscuity, not homosexuality. In fact, non-promiscuous lesbians have the lowest risk of STI.
          This identifies my interpretation that the punishment is due to sexual profligancy, rather than gay behavior.
    1) Paul again lists homosexuality in I Timothy 1:10. However, the original Greek word is better translated "one who assumes a dominant role", with connotations of pedophilia. 
        Once again, this is an example of a disrespectful scenario, which God disapproves of; an inclusion of a consensual, loving homosexual relationships is not sustainable.


Thursday, July 19, 2007

Another Go update -- And Bicycling

I attended the Somerville Go tournament in Masssachusetts last weekend. It was most excellent & I enjoyed my best tournament record ever, playing at 2 levels above my ranking. I also played a game againts a Buddhist nun, gave her 8 handicaps, and won by 15.5 points. A nice, comfortable victory, but a well fought game. I missed a couple of corner Joseki, one of which cost me a sucessful 3-3 point invastion. She was smart enough to make me regret both mistakes, and I narrowly escaped death with one of the corners. She had seki with a third, but made a big error and her group died.

I lost my last game, which cost me my undefeated rating in the tournament. I found out later that it cost me second place as well (I settled for third & wished I had stayed to take my prize, but the 5 hour drive lured me away before the awards were distributed.) This last loss hurt because I figured myself to be 5 or so points ahead, and I lost a large group with an obvious move to keep my last eye. Ah well, 3-1 is still my best tournament result so far; I can't be too upset. Especially since I've only been serious at Go for 6 months.

I'l also leave on my bicycle trip tomorrow afternoon, 636 miiles in 6.5 days. Down to Poughkeepsie & back up to Burlington, VT. I'm looking forward to it.


Friday, June 29, 2007

So I update once again

Though it seems this blog has devolved into something of a diary, which no one reads 'cept me. Ah well, such is the life of a hermit.

My VT Go tournament saw a result that I was more or less proud of. I played at 12 kyu (3 levels above my rating) and won 3 out of 5, though only 2 of those victories were official. I noticed a rather severe lack of skill after the first two games (losing 2 out of 3), which has haunted me at my one other tournament event. next time, I shall experiment with some anti-oxidants and Ginseng tea.  Anyway, my average rating jumped up 2 levels, which was encouraging.



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